Chakras and Balance

The Cheshire Cat asks Alice if she can stand on her head, and then takes off his head and stands atop it. I cannot stand on my head, but from the 18 weeks of yoga classes that I took my sophomore year of college, taught me is that doing a head or shoulder stand can reline the chakras and help find balance. I cannot do a head stand, but I can do a shoulder stand, and have found myself doing that quite often.
Finding balance isn't something that I'm good at, and I think that I have not only lost the balance in my life, but lost sight of what is important. I don't know if this is to do with my influences or with my Anahata (heart chakra) being too bright and not fitting in with the balance of my other chakras. But I have come to terms with my life at this moment, and I just need to get my head on straight and look eternally for what I need to-do, what makes me happiest, and most of all what person I want and need to be.